7 Kinds of Marriages – and One Awesome Alternative Don't let anyone tell you what kind of marriage to have – or that you must Want to have a successful marriage? Never mind all that how-to stuff of your marriage. The secret to a great marriage is deciding what you want your marriage traditional version of marriage imaginable. Whatever you want from your marriage, just be sure you are on the same interested in redefining your marriage). Then put it in writing. Make it legal. Because that's what marriage really is – a legal contract! If you and your spouse get out of your marriage what you two decided together was what you actually wanted from your marriage, then guess what? Your marriage is a success! It doesn't matter if other people turn up their noses at the kind of marriage you choose – it's your marriage, not theirs. Do": Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists, and Rebels. I reviewed 7 kinds of marriages they describe. Do-It-Yourself Marriages: 7 Possibilities #1 Starter marriage: Couples want to try out marriage for a renew their marriage or move on to a different kind of marriage. #2 Companionship marriage: This is another marriage that is not about #3 Parenting marriage: This model of marriage is all about the #4 Safety marriage: Some people marry for money. Others marry for #5 Living alone together marriage: This marriage is for people who say #6 Open marriage: Spouses have other partners but they are not sneaking stable marriage but not a monogamous one. The "consensual" part means #7 Covenant marriage: Whereas all of the other versions of "the new 'I marriage, covenant marriage ups the ante. It is only for unions of one man and one woman. The marriages are harder to get into (premarital Three states offer covenant marriages – Louisiana, Arizona, and types of marriage – single life! Live it fully, joyfully, and society that are not mentally capable of sustaining a marriage. But for most people, marriage should be a LIFE contract between two people. For society that are not mentally capable of sustaining a marriage. But for most people, marriage should be a LIFE contract between two Nice wish, but most marriages end after only 12 years in the USA. And there is nothing new about marriages of convenience, arranged, for quietly open their marriage to keep it alive, rather than disrupting Open Marriages society that are not mentally capable of sustaining a marriage. But for most people, marriage should be a LIFE contract between two Nice wish, but most marriages end after only 12 years in the USA. And there is nothing new about marriages of convenience, arranged, quietly open their marriage to keep it alive, rather than disrupting marriages are. it's important to point out that marriage is firstly a civil contract. marriage does not involve "God". These marriages last just as long as Christian marriages do. "Starter Marriage" Why would anyone enter a "starter" marriage? say, two years? Does anyone in a starter marriage believe his partner Why would anyone enter a "starter" marriage? Marriage vs. cohabitation e-same-as-marriage/ to do is eliminate the legal protection of marriage and leave only Marriage" should then it is the same living together. I would think resistance there is to actually formally doing marriage differently and Whether we like it (or agree with it) marriage IS changing at breakneck Marriage is not for everyone Marriage is not for everyone. if I didn't feel the whole 'marriage' package was what I wanted; that because this validates marriage as a paradigm or the norm, which it is The types of marriage described here sound a bit like a hungover from marriage (I am also going to put a three people marriage on the table). to enter an ‘alternative’ type of marriage freedom of choice or 7 kinds of marriage they are a sexless roommate, and a mixed marriage! We live as #6 open We must never forget that marriages are always contracts and there is of marriages that society forces on individuals. Majority of people are made for marriages. People with PD suffer a lot because of these expectations laid down by systems of marriages, irrespective of society marriages must be kept open. In any case, people find their ways of * The Great Unraveling: Marriage Liberated Us by Coming Undone