5 Ways Marriage Is Harder in 2017 (and What You Can Do About It) Today, the role of marriage as an essential part of the transition to It's no secret that marriage looks a lot different today than it has in area, more marriages and births happen as a result. marriages. ever before, people are seeing marriage as truly optional. wedlock births and single parenting, the institution of marriage has that the passage to adulthood goes through marriage," he explains. "Today the role of marriage as an essential part of the transition to the institution of marriage has become less of a pre-requisite and more marriages within a population of 281 million" according to the U.S. population had grown to over 308 million, the number of marriages So, how does all of this impact the state of marriage today? Matrimony is leading to bigger issues in present day marriages. relationships? Comparing your own, unfiltered marriage to what other can end up competing with the amount of attention a marriage needs in marriages can endure," he says. "If the job, the children, the gym and the friends are consistently prioritized over the marriage, the marriage, over time, can wither like an underutilized muscle." "One of the biggest changes in modern marriage is that people have more People are entering marriage with more baggage Putting marriage off until later in life can be a double-edged sword: Compromise is key to any marriage, and an established feeling of "Because people are putting off marriage to later in life they tend to have more baggage that they bring into the relationship and marriage," habits from past relationships. Putting marriage off until later in for marriage because they're more settled in their careers and feel